If you have read my articles or heard me speak, you know that I
always come down to action. We need to act if we are going to be successful!
Yet, our success starts long before our actions. In fact, our
success begins in our thoughts.
The process is that thoughts become actions and actions produce
results. So the equation starts with the thoughts. So the key to success is to
start with and control the thoughts that we have. Good thoughts become good
actions become good results.
But there is this predicament we have as humans. It is this “battle” we have with our thoughts. Thoughts of depression, negative thoughts, thoughts of fear etc constantly creep into our minds and cause us to act in certain ways that are going to produce the antithesis of the kind we want that will produce success.
So what can we do to win the battle with thoughts? Here are a
few main points. Apply these immediately and then constantly and you will be on
your way to winning the thought battle.
Guard your mind. Pretend that behind that forehead of yours is a
very precious thing – your mind – because it is precious. If you had a
storehouse of gold in your house, you would hire an armed guard to stand watch
and keep all the bad guys out. Yet, many of us let any old ting come into our
minds. We need to keep the bad thoughts, the negative thoughts O-U-T! Now when
I say this, I mean both the ones that start in our heads and the ones that come
from external sources.
Proactively place good thoughts in your head. Just like a
garden, where you weed, or pull the bad stuff out, and plant, put the good
stuff in, so we do the same thing with our thoughts. Buy tapes and music that
will produce good, happy thoughts in your head! Watch TV programs and videos
that put good thoughts in your head!
Avoid the naysayers. They are all around you. You work with
them, you live near them – some are even in your family! Whatever you do, do
not let them affect you with their negative thoughts. Spend as little time as
you can with them (unless it is your spouse or kids – then you need
counseling!)
Act on the positive thoughts that you do have. When a positive
thought comes into your head, act on it! This will begin to produce a “bridge”
between what you think and how you act! This will then make that transition
even easier as time goes by!
Four key ideas to win the thought battle: Guard your mind.
Proactively place good thoughts in your head. Avoid the naysayers. Act on the
positive thoughts that you do have.
Go
forth and Win the Battle!
Chris Widener, is a successful businessman, author, speaker and
television host. He has authored over 450 articles and nine books, including a
New York Times and Wall Street Journal Best-seller. He has produced over 85 CDs
and DVDs on leadership, motivation and success.
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