If you want to know how an Idaho farm boy can make it to
Beverly Hills, then take the journey toward achievement by discovering the
cornerstone for total and lasting success: building your philosophy. I was
broke at 25 and a millionaire by 31. At 25, there was nothing in my bank and I
needed to provide for my family. As I was considering what to do, I met John
Earl Shoaff, a wealthy entrepreneur who became my employer for the next five
years. He revolutionized my life and taught me the importance of developing my
philosophy. It isn’t a complex or mystical process, but a principle that can
make a difference in how your life turns out. As we go forward on this journey
toward success, remember you need to keep looking for those few things that
make the most difference in your life, and spend most of your time doing those
things. Effective time management is the best-kept secret of the rich. While
there are fi e major puzzle pieces for success, without the first—developing a
sound philosophy— the other pieces are of little value.
Set Your
Sail
The winds of circumstance blow upon all of us. We all have experienced the
winds of disappointment, despair and heartbreak, but why do people arrive at
such different places at the end of the journey? Have we not all sailed upon
the same sea?
The major difference isn’t circumstance; it’s the set of the sail, or the
way we think.
In spite of our best efforts, we have moments when things just seem to fall
apart. The rich and the poor have the same challenges that can lead to
financial ruin and personal despair. It isn’t what happens to us that
determines the quality of our lives, it’s what we do after we’ve set our sails
and the wind decides to change direction. When winds change, we must change. We
have to struggle to our feet and reset the sail in a manner that will steer us
in the direction of our own deliberate choice. The set of the sail, how we
think and how we respond, has a far greater capacity to destroy our lives than
any challenges we face. How quickly we respond to adversity is far more
important than adversity itself. The great challenge of life is to control the
process of our own thinking.
Your personal philosophy is the greatest determining
factor in how your life works out. - Jim Rohn
Learn From
Success and Failure
The best way to establish a new and powerful personal philosophy is to
objectively review the conclusions you’ve drawn about life. Any conclusion
you’ve drawn that isn’t working for you could be working against you. The best
way to counteract misinformation and wrong data is to input new and accurate
information. Gather information from personal experience. If you’re doing
something wrong, evaluate what you did wrong and change things.
Seek an objective, outside voice about how you are and what you’re doing.
An objective opinion from someone you respect can lead you to early and
accurate information about your decision-making process. Listen to the
freshness of an outside voice—someone who can see the forest and isn’t lost in
the trees.
Observe the successes and failures of other people. If people who failed
were to give seminars, it would be helpful. You could see how people mess up
and you wouldn’t do what they did. You could find out what poor people read and
decide not to read it. Past failures and errors prompt us to amend current
conduct so we don’t replicate the past.
Study from people who do well. Each of us should be in a constant search
for people we admire and respect and whose behavior we can model. It’s far
better to deliberately choose the people we will permit to influence us than to
allow bad influences to affect us without our conscious choice.
Read All
You Can
People from all walks of life who’ve had some of the most incredible
experiences have taken the time to write of these experiences so we can be
instructed and amend our philosophies. There are two books you need to read to
build your philosophy: Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon
Hill and The Richest Man in Babylon by George S. Clason. The
contributions of other people enable us to reset our sails based upon their
experiences. Books offer treasures of information that can change our lives,
fortunes, relationships, health and careers for the better.
Keep a
Journal
A journal is a gathering place for all of our observations and discoveries
about life. It’s our own handwritten transcript that captures our experiences,
ideas, desires and conclusions about the people and the events that have
touched our lives. The past, when properly documented, is one of the best
guides for making good decisions. The very act of writing about our lives helps
us think more objectively about our actions. Writing tends to slow down the fl
ow of information and gives us time to analyze and ponder the experience. The
intense scrutiny of journal writing can enable us to make refinements in our
philosophy that are truly life-changing.
Spend more money on the inside of your head than the
outside. - Jim Rohn
Jot down what you learn and be a buyer of empty books. It’s the small
disciplines that lead to great accomplishments.
Observe
and Listen
Pay attention during your day, watch what’s going on and become a good
listener. Find a voice of value and stay for a while. Surround yourself with
people you respect and admire. Find people whose personalities and achievements
stimulate, fascinate and inspire you, and then strive to assimilate their best
qualities. This is called the skill of selecting. Don’t waste your time on the
silly and the shallow.
One of the major reasons people don’t do well is because they keep trying
to get through the day while a more worthy cause is to get from the day. We
must become sensitive enough to observe and ponder what is happening around us.
Be alert. Be awake. Often the most extraordinary opportunities are hidden among
seemingly insignifi - cant events.
Be a good listener. With so many voices vying for your attention, you need
to develop the skill of selective listening and only dial into the radio
station that appeals to you. If a voice is not leading to the achievement of
your goals, exercise caution in how long you listen.
Be
Disciplined
Every day is filled with dozens of personal crossroads, moments when we’re
called upon to make a decision regarding minor as well as major questions.
These decisions chart a path to a future destination. With careful mental
preparation, we can make wise choices. The development of a sound philosophy
prepares us for making sound decisions. When we eat healthy foods, we
experience positive results in a short time. When we start exercising, we feel
a new vitality almost immediately. When we begin reading, we experience a
growing awareness and a new level of self-confidence. New disciplines practiced
daily will produce exciting results. The magic of new disciplines causes us to
amend our thinking.
Don’t
Neglect
Neglect is the major reason people don’t have what they want. If you don’t
take care of things in your life, neglect becomes a disease. If you neglect to
do good things with your money, you probably neglect to do good things with
your time. If you don’t know what’s going on with your health or your bank
account, you could be at risk. Set up new disciplines to change your life.
Everything is within our reach if we will read books, use journals,
practice the disciplines and wage a new and vigorous battle against neglect.
Build your philosophy. Commit yourself to a new journey and say, “I’m going
to change my life.” Once you do, you’ll never look back.
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