The sun'll come out
Tomorrow
So ya gotta hang on
'Til tomorrow
Come what may
Tomorrow! Tomorrow!
I love ya Tomorrow!
You're always
A day
Away!
So ya gotta hang on
'Til tomorrow
Come what may
Tomorrow! Tomorrow!
I love ya Tomorrow!
You're always
A day
Away!
~ “Tomorrow” from the Broadway musical Annie
With all due respect to little
orphan Annie, just thinking about tomorrow takes us away from the things we
should do today. Indeed, what we are enjoying or suffering today is largely a
result of the decisions we made yesterday. And, just like yesterday determined
today, today determines tomorrow.
Yet even though we somehow know
that today matters, we have tremendous difficulty fully realizing its value and
importance. Why? Partly, it’s because we have a warped view of success.
How People Wrongly View Success:
1. It’s Luck
Good fortune may have a small
part to play in success, but it’s certainly not the main factor. Did you know
that 90% of lottery winners blow through their winnings in five years of less?
Luck brings them momentary riches, but they are ill-equipped to manage their
money, and thus they cannot sustain financial success.
2. It’s Mystical
Some people envision success as
something mysterious. They’re convinced there’s a magic formula that they have
to uncover in order to be successful.
3. It’s Suspect
Others view every success with a
cynical eye. They assume anyone who is successful must have exploited others or
taken advantage of them on their way to the top.
4. It’s a Result of Hard Work
Some people live by the
philosophy: “the early bird gets the worm.” They think that by putting their
nose to the grindstone, they will eventually gain success. However, I know a
lot of people who work hard and yet aren’t very successful.
5. It’s an Event
Lots of folks are searching for a
momentary experience that’s going to suddenly flip the switch for them,
transforming them into an overnight success.
6. It’s a Destination
People with destination disease
view success as a place they will someday reach. For them, success exists
somewhere out there, in the future.
7. It’s an Opportunity
Some people are waiting for their
big break, hoping that circumstances will finally align in their favor. “If I
could just have a few things fall into place,” they think, “then I could be
successful.”
8. It’s the Right Relationship
Many people believe their success
depends on others. If they could only have been born in the right family, or if
they could just meet the right person, then they could have success.
A Healthy View of Success
Few people realize that success
is within their reach right now! The “secret” of your success is determined by
your daily agenda. In fact, if I could spend 10 hours with you tomorrow, observing
how you spend your day, I could tell, with about 95% accuracy, how successful
you are. Most people underestimate today and overestimate tomorrow. They
promise themselves that they’re going to turn their lives around tomorrow…but
“tomorrow” never comes. Success is determined by the daily decisions you make
and the daily disciplines you practice. That’s it. Daily decisions relate to
goal-setting, and daily disciplines involve goal-doing, or acting on the
choices you have made.
Thought to Ponder
Ask yourself this question: what
am I putting off today that I know deserves my attention right away?
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