Every day your success, peace of mind, and perhaps even happiness
depends upon dealing successfully with other people. This could include
obtaining satisfaction from an unhelpful customer service rep, closing the most
lucrative sale of your career with the big but elusive client. Or, perhaps
something as mundane as getting your spouse to take out the trash.
Whether
selling your product or service or communicating an idea you believe in for business, family, social or many other reasons, you
need to influence people every single day.
Thus
(and, this is key)…
Your
Ability To Influence Directly Determines Your Ability To Succeed
Now,
you can learn a tried-and-true framework for building alliances at work, at
home, and anywhere else you seek to win people over.
You can
indeed obtain personal satisfaction when dealing with others, and in a way
that creates both immediate and long-term, sustainable results.
And,
you can feel GREAT about it!!
Why?
Because,
when done correctly, you are helping people to make decisions that are not only
in your best interest, but in alignment with their best interests as well.
That’s
the way to go.
Doing
this effectively, consistently, and predictably, however, takes influence.
What Is
It About Those Who Do This Well?
The
great influencers — whether CEOs, entrepreneurs, sales professionals, clergy,
parents, teachers, etc. — seem to have a knack for getting the results they
want, but in a way that everyone is happy. And, these leaders are
persuasive in the most positive and benevolent sense of the word.
And,
while, for some it might come naturally, for most of us it’s a learned skill
set. Fortunately, they are simple to learn and easy to apply.
Let me
share with you my 5 Key Principles of Ultimate Influence that will help you
live a life that’s a lot more fun, a lot less stressful and a lot more financially
profitable.
The
technical skills of any profession are vitally important. Without them, you’re
not even in the game. However, even with them, you’re only in
the game. Those who have mastered the people skills obtained
through the 5 Key Principles of Ultimate Influence are nine steps ahead in the
game…in a ten-step game.
Among
the many skills you’ll learn in Adversaries into Allies…
- How to positively
persuade others with class and grace.
- How to say “no” both
graciously and effectively.
- How to negotiate better
prices on what you buy.
- How to reset your personal
“default setting” if it currently isn’t serving you. (Remember this one –
it’s a life-changer!)
- How to win others to
your way of thinking even in intense situations.
- How to know when someone is trying
to manipulate you.
- How to gently but effectively
collect money that is owed you.
- How to quickly disarm a person
who verbally attacks you.
- 2 words that will separate you
from everyone else and 3 words that will endear you to them.
You’ll
also learn…
- The 8 key
words to immediately move someone to your side of an issue. (It’s
amazing how effectively this works — the results of this one technique
will pay for this book many times over for the rest of your life.)
If you
cannot influence others to take the appropriate action, it’s difficult to be as
successful as you potentially can be.
For a
free chapter of Bob Burg’s new book, visit: https://burg.infusionsoft.com/app/form/aia-free-chapter
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